Pole Kiss

What Is a Pole Kiss?

Pole kiss is a lighthearted term in the pole dancing world used to describe the bruises or red marks that appear after training. These marks — often found on your thighs, shins, or arms — are the result of strong contact between your skin and the pole. They’re seen as a kind of “badge of honor” by many pole dancers.

Why Do We Get Pole Kisses?

Pole dancing requires a lot of grip — and that grip often comes from your skin pressing firmly against the pole. When you’re learning new tricks, especially climbs, sits, or spins, it’s completely normal for your body to develop bruises as it adjusts.

• Friction: Skin pressed tightly against the metal can cause red spots or minor abrasions.
• Impact: When learning to control a move, sudden contact or slips can leave bruises.
• Pressure Points: Certain tricks apply pressure to areas that aren’t used to it yet.

How to Treat and Prevent Them

Pole kisses usually fade on their own and are nothing to worry about. However, you can support your recovery and reduce future bruising:

• Arnica Gel or Cream: Speeds up healing and reduces swelling.
• Warm Compress: Can ease soreness and help bruises fade faster.
• Technique: As your technique improves, bruising often decreases.
• Rest: Give your body time to recover between intense sessions.

Should You Worry?

Most pole kisses are harmless and just part of the learning curve — especially in the beginning. But:

• If bruises are unusually painful or don’t fade, talk to a medical professional.
• If you’re constantly bruising the same area, ask a coach for a technique check-in.

What We Believe at POLEPLACE

We wear our pole kisses with pride — but we also believe in training smart. If you’re feeling sore, give your body love, not guilt. Every mark tells a story: of effort, of growth, of courage. That’s something to celebrate, not hide.